Get Comfortable, Being Uncomfortable......

We all face these moments, whether in our careers, personal lives, or relationships. Whether you’re working for someone, running your own business, managing employees, or negotiating with clients, these conversations and confrontations are unavoidable. They also extend beyond work, influencing how we interact with our spouses, children, and family members.

So why are they so hard to have, even when we know the outcome is often worth the discomfort?

From experience, I can tell you that as humans, we naturally want to help others and do right by them. But in many lines of work—and in life—we tend to tell people what they want to hear rather than what they need to hear, often to avoid hurting feelings.

In the world of building luxury homes, this approach can create problems for both clients and builders. Here’s what happens when we avoid necessary conversations:

1. Short-Term Comfort: You may sidestep discomfort in the moment, but it’s only temporary.

    2. Long-Term Surprises: Avoiding the truth can lead to unpleasant surprises down the road, for everyone involved.

To maintain a strong relationship—whether with clients, a spouse, or a colleague—crucial conversations and confrontations are essential. Addressing these issues promptly keeps things on track and ensures smoother navigation in any situation.

  The Worst Thing You Can Do: Procrastinate

Hoping the problem will resolve itself rarely works, even though we all wish it might. The key is to act quickly. The longer you wait, the harder the conversation becomes, and the greater the risk of unresolved tension.

  The Key to Success: Embrace the Discomfort

When you find yourself questioning whether to have that crucial conversation or confrontation, don’t overthink it—just do it. Growth lies on the other side of discomfort, and addressing issues head-on fosters clarity, mutual respect, and long-term success.

So, get comfortable being uncomfortable. It’s the foundation for clear communication, stronger relationships, and smooth sailing—whether in business or life.

Happy Holidays!

Jim Steg

Steg Custom Homes